‘Dopey’ Sylvester Stallone- Made his Dream of
Stardom a Must
Surely one of the best examples of the power of
commitment and how ‘doing whatever it takes will get you what you
want’ is the story of Sylvester Stallone.At
his peak, Stallone was one of the most popular and highly paid stars
in Hollywood, commanding a fee of US$20m per movie. Was he just born
under a lucky star? Was he a naturally talented actor? Was he at the
right place at the right time? Hardly. He was someone who seemed to
have all the odds stacked up against him.
His family was so poor that his mother had to give
birth to him on the doorsteps of a school. A blotched delivery by
students caused a facial nerve to be severed, leaving him paralyzed
on the right side of his face. As a result, Stallone had to live the
rest of his life with slurred speech. He even had to deal with
having a drooping lower lip and being made fun of because of his
name ‘Sylvester’ (associated with the Looney Tunes cat). Despite all
these limitations, young Stallone dreamed of becoming an actor and
inspiring millions of people through his movies.
As you know many young people go through a phase
of wanting to be an actor, a star …the difference between Stallone
and the rest of youthful dreamers was that his dream was not a
merely wishful thinking. To Stallone, it was an absolute must. He
was truly committed to doing whatever it took to make it happen.
First he enrolled in acting school and then
started going for auditions. Predictably, with his wooden acting,
his dopey looks and his slurred speech, Stallone was rejected for
every part he applied for. But he never gave up. Doggedly he just
kept changing his strategy and taking action.
The way he landed his first part is a fine example
of how he was willing to do whatever it took. When he was rejected
after yet another audition, he pulled up a chair in front of the
manager’s office and sat down, refusing to leave unless they gave
him a chance. After sitting there for hours, they were so moved by
how much he wanted a chance that they relented and gave him a part.
Although he appeared for a couple of minutes (as an extra), it gave
him that first breakthrough he was after.
Unfortunately, that experience was followed by yet
another string of unsuccessful attempts at getting another acting
job. At that point, his wife told him to give up his ‘stupid dream’
and get a real job. His reply was, ‘ If I get another job, I would
lose the only thing I have got going for me…my hunger.’ ‘By quitting
and getting a job, I would be selling out on my dream’.
Stallone eventually wound up so broke and
desperate that he was forced to sell his dog for $50 in order to
survive. It was the saddest moment in his life because his dog was
the one friend he had got left.
At this, the lowest point in his life, he watched
a boxing match between then world heavyweight champion Muhammed Ali
and Chuck Wepner, an underdog that everyone thought would be
defeated within three rounds. What no one expected was Wepners’
determination and tenacity. He lasted the total of fifteen rounds
with Ali, just refusing to go down.
Sly was so inspired by what he saw that he had
visions in his head about a movie that he was going to write. He
started writing profusely for 72 hours non-stop until he finished
the manuscript for ‘Rocky’. He was so excited by the script because
in his mind he knew that this was going to be the movie that would
change his life and his fortune.
But when he went round attempting to sell his
script, everyone felt that it was too predictable and that nobody
would be interested in watching a movie about boxing. But he didn’t
give up. He kept on going and going until one company made him an
offer of 125,000 for the script and the rights to make the movie.
This should have made Sly overjoyed but his dream was to be an actor
and not a writer.
So, he told them that the condition of sale was
that he be cast as the lead actor. They objected saying, ‘You’re a
writer! you’re not an actor!’ ‘There is no way we will let you act!’
But Sly stood his ground and refused to sell the script if he wasn’t
the lead actor. They even increased their offer to $250,000, but Sly
kept insisting that he fitted the role of ‘Rocky’, and no one else.
Although he was broke and hungry, he refused to sell out his dream
for a six- figure pay check. That was his level of commitment!
Eventually they reluctantly agreed, on the
condition that the movie be made on a shoe string budget of less
than a million dollars and Stallone would get only $35,000 for the
writing, directing and acting. Sly would however, get a percentage
of the profits, if the movie made money. He agreed immediately.
The first thing Sly did when he got his money was
to go in search of the man who bought his dog to buy it back. When
he finally tracked down the man, he offered to buy his dog back for
$100. The man declined his offer saying that he was not interested.
Sly upped his offer to $500. Still the man refused. Sly again upped
his offer, this time to $1000. The man still would not budge saying,
‘No amount of money will ever convince me to sell this dog.’
While most of us would give up at this point, Sly
knew that if he was committed to do whatever it takes, he would find
a way. Eventually he did get his dog back. He paid the man a
whopping $15,000 and also gave him a part in the movie as part of
the deal.
When Rocky was launched at the box office, it
grossed over $225 million and was nominated for ten academy awards
(including best actor), eventually winning an Oscar for Best Picture
& Best Director. Sylvester instantly shot to fame as an action star
and lucrative offers came in for future blockbusters, which were to
eventuate in First Blood, Rambo and the Rocky sequels. His eventual
success came from the fact that to him, becoming an actor was truly
a must. He believed that when you are committed enough, there is
always a way!
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