How to Develop Empowering Beliefs and Values
Our beliefs act as the ‘on’ and ‘off’ switch to our
brain and our inner resources. Without the right beliefs in place,
none of the other steps in the success formula matter.
Our beliefs determine what we want and what we do
when we don’t get what we want. If you have limiting beliefs like,
‘It’s too difficult’, ‘I’m too young’, ‘it’s not possible’, ‘I am
not a good speaker’, it is highly unlikely that you will set
inspiring goals in the first place. If you don’t have empowering
beliefs, you will not set goals for yourself. And nobody can set
goals for you either.
Similarly, limiting beliefs about yourself and the
situation will make you ‘give up’ rather than change your strategy
and take action until you succeed.
If you believe that you don’t have the capability
or that ‘it is too difficult’, then you are more likely to quit than
change your strategy and take action until you succeed. So an
empowering set of beliefs is truly one of the keys you need to punch
in, to set the rest of the formula in motion.
The second key that drives the success are our values or what we
hold dear to us, and live by. Values are like emotional hot buttons
that drive our behavior. They are what we value as important in our
lives.
All of us regard values like ‘success’, ‘freedom’,
‘security’, ‘love’ and ‘happiness’ very differently. And it is the
way we internally rank these values that determine the kinds of
choices we make, and the actions we take.
Some people are driven towards reaching their
goals because of their need to feel secure. Others may be driven by
a different value, like freedom. “I want to earn enough to be free”
(free from want, free to walk out of a boring job) is an often-heard
goal.
The important thing is that whatever our values are, they must be
aligned with our goals. The main reason why most people never feel
driven towards their goals is because their values are not aligned,
their values may even be in conflict with their goals.
I once had a student (a young mother) who could never feel
consistently motivated towards her goals of achieving her sales
targets. It was later that it dawned on her that her goals and
values were in direct conflict. She valued ‘family’ but as a
professional, she also valued ‘success’. This internal conflict
drained a lot of her energy, and held her back. She wanted to
achieve her career goals but she felt guilty whenever the pursuit of
her goal prevented her from spending time with her family.
Successful have empowering beliefs that they can
achieve what they set out to do and they ensure they align their
values with their goals. If you want to become successful, develop
empowering beliefs and align your values because if you don't, there
is almost no chance that success will knock on your door.
About The Author
Adam Khoo is an entrepreneur, best-selling author and a self-made
millionaire by the age of 26. Over the last 15 years, he has trained
over 245,000 professionals, executives and business owners to tap
their personal power and achieve excellence in their various fields
of endeavor. Discover his success secrets and claim your FREE
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